Are you bothered about how to give your girlfriend a promise ring?
Do you want to give her a ring in such a way that she appreciates you more?
If you need an answer to any of the two questions above, you must read this article wholly so that you can understand different creative ways that you can adopt to give your girlfriend a promise ring.
Before looking at the creative ways to give your girlfriend a promise ring, you must understand a few facts about the promise ring: what is a promise ring and what purpose does it serve in a relationship.
A promise ring is a symbol of commitment between two people and the first gift or token signifying that an honest relationship is developing. Sometimes, the promise ring can be exchanged as a symbol of joint commitment. It, however, is far away from love.
The following are the purpose a promise ring can serve:
- A promise ring can mean “I promise to always love you.”
- A promise ring can mean “I promise to be faithful.”
- A promise ring can mean “I Promise to be your friend always.”
- A promise ring can mean “I Promise to marry you one day.”
- A promise ring can mean “I am very serious about you.”
We must also know that there is a clear-cut difference between the promise ring and the engagement ring.
The significant difference between the two is that the former is gifted with the understanding that the ring will be replaced in the future by an engagement ring, followed by a wedding ring if need be. The promise ring always comes with a subtle design, while the price is a bit different than that of a unique engagement ring.
Lastly, before going into the main article, let us understand which finger we wear the promise ring on and the meaning of the position.
If you give your girlfriend a promise ring to engage and marry her in the future, the ring is worn traditionally on the third finger of the left hand.
If you are giving a promise ring to someone you do not want to marry, the ring can be worn on a finger of the right hand to avoid confusion and clarify to people that you are not engaged yet. Some people prefer wearing the promise ring on the ring finger of the right hand to let people know that the couples have yet to be engaged.
Regardless of the purpose the promise ring serves, the difference between the promise and engagement ring,, and the correct finger to wear a promise ring on, this article is not concerned with any of the above topics. The major points that this article will be looking at are the romantic and creative ways to give your girlfriend a promise ring.
This implies that we are looking at creative ways to give someone close to your heart, not a mere friend, a wedding ring so that you are considered not a boring boyfriend. Try to give her the ring in such a way that she always remembers throughout her lifetime.
You can take her through the promise ring hunt by creating a map to guide her to get the ring. The map can also contain helpful clues. Send her the map and the clues through a friend or a deliveryman and ensure that she gets them. You can make the hunt for you easy or difficult depending on her cognizance of the environment. But it is always advisable to avoid a problematic hunt search that will make her bored or tired during the hunt.
Ensure the map you sent leads to an incredible park, a waterfront or beach, a favorite restaurant, or points with monuments or statues that depict love for you to present the promise ring to her.
Bottom line: Use a map and ensure that it leads to a special place so that you can present her the ring.
Another creative way to present the Promise Ring is to package the ring misleadingly.
It sounds funny but is one of the most creative ways for you to ever present a promise ring. We all know that once your girlfriend sees a jewelry box, she is already aware of the fact that you want to present her a gift.
Try using misleading packaging for the ring. This can be done in any style.
Visit her at home with an unwrapped matchbox and tell her you want her to prepare you a meal. Give her the matchbox containing the matchstick; she may be very worried why you had to get her a matchstick. Act like you are very serious and hungry and she needs to prepare you a meal. Impose it on her that she uses the matchstick you just got. I am sure if she opens the matchbox in the kitchen to cook she will be more than surprised. She will rush down to the living room to show you what she just saw.
You can also use another misleading packaging method by keeping her in suspense for long. Wrap the promise ring in a box for an item she can always use every day like an electric iron, her first reaction may be disappointing but once she opens the box and the real gift in the box is found, you will notice a mood swing (from being disappointed to being excited). You may decide to build more suspense by using about five different larger boxes (One inside another in the order of size from bigger to smaller).
Serve her breakfast in bed with a Promise Ring.
If your girlfriend enjoys sleeping in, this is a romantic, perfect way to deliver the promise ring and say good morning.
Make breakfast and set it up on a tray and add flowers to decorate it. The ring should also be kept on a small plate (ensure that you cover the plate so that it looks like part of the breakfast menu you are serving her). Seeing you prepare breakfast for her alone is enough to make her thrilled. You can wait back to see the reaction when she finds the ring.
Bottom line: Your girlfriend will love you more when you treat her like a queen, more so when she finds a promise ring inside.
Try sending someone special to deliver the Promise Ring.
This is another creative way to give your girlfriend a ring. Nobody on earth will ever expect a promise ring from a delivery person. Your pet can also help you deliver the promise ring if it is obedient and has shown willingness to help you deliver the promise ring.
Have you thought of sending someone she will never expect? Think of sending her boss at work to help you deliver the package to her. Her boss has nothing to do with the relationship, and so it will come as a surprise to her.
Use songs or poems.
This is exclusively for poets or lovers of poetry. Using songs or poems to present a ring is such an excellent way. Get her a book of poems and carve out a small part of the book on the fifth to sixth page and ensure that the ring fits into the cavity you cut out. Give her the poem book, sit back, and ask her to read out the poem to you. After she has flicked through the first, second, third, and fourth page, she will indeed find the ring on the fifth page, which is a perfect ode to your love. It is one of the most creative ways of presenting a promise ring to your girlfriend.
Bottom line: Singing songs or buying poem books and sending with the ring makes your girlfriend love you more. Ladies appreciate good voices or men who want to build an empire with them.
Hide the Promise ring inside her cup of wine.
It may sound old-fashioned, but the approach here is different. Rather than keeping the ring in her drink on a date after being served, ensure that it is in the drink before wine is served to you. Meet the waiter at the restaurant and discuss the plan with them.
Let people work for you.
Though it may never have been tried before, you need to find someone to deliver the ring to you in her presence for you to then give it to her.
You may decide to attend a music/comedy show. Meet with the comedian or artiste and let them sing love songs or crack jokes relating to love. The comedian or artist comes closer, kneels before your girlfriend, and brings out the ring. You will then collect the ring from the comedian or artist and give it to your girlfriend.
Keep the Promise Ring inside another gift.
The promise ring is enough to make your girlfriend happy, but giving her two gifts will make her happier. Add another gift to the promise ring. Try to ensure that the gift you add is related to the promise ring or can hold the promise ring.
She will be glad to receive the gift, but she will be happier when she opens the gift and finds the hidden treasure inside it.
The gift can be a big box of chocolates, a decorative jar, a pair of shoes, a handbag, or anything that you know she loves.
Use chocolates because ladies love them.
Using chocolate is another unique, romantic, and creative way to give your girlfriend a promise ring. Aside from the fact that this method is romantic, it comes along with sweetness.
Buy a heart-shaped chocolate from her best chocolate confectioneries or the best confectionery store in your vicinity. Afterwards, change a piece with the promise ring.
She will be expecting to find chocolates in the box; her heart will melt immediately when she finds that the promise ring inside the chocolate box.
Do not use this method if you are not ready to see your girlfriend cry because it is very likely that she will dissolve in happy tears that will touch you too.
We all see how flowers are used to express love conventionally, though sometimes the basics matter. In this context, the use of flowers is the basis of expressing love.
Buy red roses or order from any flower store around. Hide the promise ring in the rose flower petals (order a firm rosebud when you want to do this). After you present the flower to her, ensure she keeps the flower in a safe and prominent place (beside her bed, dresser table, or close to her shoe rack). After a few days, the flower bud will open wide and the ring will be revealed in the smooth fold of the rose flower.
You are already thinking of which creative way of presenting a ring will work perfectly for your girlfriend.